The Flying Mermaid ★: March 2018

A baby. One of the biggest, if not the greatest gift the man can get from the fate. Miracle of the new life. Particle of oneself in the new being which arrives to world.

Great, indestructible, absolute and unconditional love from the conception, to the end of life, which isn't possible to compare to anything else.

Some people feel ready for the parenthood in the age of eighteen, other being thirty years old, there are so, which grow up to the role of the parent in their forties, but... Unfortunately there are also persons that never mature to this responsibility and aren't able to take this exceptional decision (at least not consciously).

However what is responsible for such a state of affairs? Environment? Upbringing? Life experiences? And maybe dreams? Very possible. After all many times happens, that twenty-year-old man with the ton of luggage delivered by the life, is far maturer mentally, emotionally and generally, than the thirty-year-old good-for-nothing, full-fledged party animal who neither thinks to settle down and to take serious decisions, and a brush-off of hangover is their biggest problem.

Well, however no matter how to look, not everyone is on the same level of progress and the maturity, one are capturing them earlier and are ready to become caring, responsible and loving parents which will give to the little baby everything the best and the most beautiful feelings, and others... Need much more time to get out of life swaddling-clothes.

However no matter what, for the normal, aware and adult man, the baby is a darling, a tiny pearl that deserves the piece of the sky. Both for the woman who for nine months is carrying the new life under her heart, feels its every activity, is sharing her body and all feelings with her baby, and for the man who looks at the growing belly of his partner, watching the child on the ultrasound scan, can see how is moving, can hear its heartbeat... - a baby is a most beautiful and greatest, irreplaceable and incomparable gift.

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I am fake, the hologram, I don't exist, me isn't me, my life isn't mine, I stole the face from other person... - after all I survived throughout 19 years, I live and I'm not gonna disappear.

If at any time you thought how it feels to be a fake, a hologram and other kinds of beings like these, you can be satisfied - you found the right place.

During last four years, when my activity in social media was already much developed and intense (yes, I know that it's difficult to believe, but earlier I was rather a passive user of the Internet and I preferred to hide in the shadow instead of to be conspicuous), I was accused many times that actually... I'm not me, but somebody else, my accounts are created by completely different person which invented such a form as me, named her, design the life story and consistently is persuading everyone around that the created heroine is real, and for increasing the confidence level - steals photos of some girl, innocent and not conscious of anything. Hmmmm if imagination and the stupidity of some people were able to fly, surely would glide all over the sky higher than planes.

The cabaret has been playing with the full power. Photos, films, live coverages with my participation - nothing gave the effect. Some in spite of the incontrovertible proof, still had their own version, that is... I was promoted to a job of the hologram.

However this frenzy reached its apogee last year, when in the private message one strange girl wrote to me announcing that she knows that photos of the face and body published on the blog and Facebook don't belong to me. My surprise was quite big, when she started threatening, that if immediately I won't remove all photos, accounts and the blog (which in her belief I also stole), I won't disappear from the Internet and I won't apologise for the impersonating somebody - she will destroy me, she will make me a rubbish in the Internet and I will remember her words to the end of my life.

Hmm, gladly I would learn whom the person which allegedly I am impersonating is and whom my face, my body and my blog belong to. But well, most probably this knowledge wasn't given to me, because the author of ambitious messages, asked by me for showing any evidence of the existence of the person which is reportedly "the owner of me", in response attacked with insults, next disappeared in thin air and never again appeared. Interesting coincidence.

Guessing, what causes irrational acting of some people is simply impossible. Maybe it's better so, because discovering the source of the human stupidity could end with trauma to the end of one's days.

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Some moments I think, whether people still remember what is a respect to the other person, whether animal instincts already totally took the control over some of them... What I read last time, what I had seen, and what I experienced firsthand, caused that I had been horrified and I lost my faith into the goodness and the human intellect...

As the example I will use the situation from before a few days.

One of many groups on Facebook, counting several dozen thousands of members. I frankly admit that I don't know how I was there so I'm concluding that one of my friends added me.

Seemingly normal people, and in fact wild beasts without scruple, feelings and limits which have not a speck of dignity, not to mention the humanity. They are taking care of matters which in their opinion are worth the attention, there is gossiping, offending and humiliating other people, without hesitation using their photos, personal data, many times addresses or personal details of families of their victims. However threats and a melediction are their most frequently and most willingly used tools, in addition this first is far more often used than second... Yes, well you can see, threats. Punishable threats, for example of battery, death, finding and "taking care" of a given person or their family and friends, wishing rape both women and men and children, death, illness, loss of the family and everything what valuable... Frightening directly so that the given man should be careful when is going out, because can come to a sticky end, that learn where lives and catch them etc... This collection is much more longer and more "impressive", and making a list of all epithets which were written from members of this group to the other persons would take a good few days.

Several days ago seeing one of posts added there, I didn't withstand and I stood up for the woman as innocent as a lamb against these monsters. I didn't have to wait long time for a response - after only two minutes I received a notification that somebody mentioned me in the comment... Just for a thought what could appear for my eyes, shiver passed me. I expected that there was no chance for the polite answer, but... What I saw was worse than the most daring ideas.

"Squeal one word of the defence more, and you will regret you small ****, it won't be difficult to find you. Guard the muzzle **** or else you will taste knife into ribs and **** in ****, dudes will willingly have fun. Be careful baby girl, or else we won't have a mercy" one of users being a member of the unlucky group wrote in response to my standing up for the woman attacked in the post. Adult man, not a brattish teenager. Insults and the vulgarisms included in the quoted comment were censured by me with stars ****.

If you think that this in-crowd is only a joking, that all vulgar and aggressive words, which they are directing to other persons, are just a game and joke then you are mistaken. It's no joke neither no game. It completely "serious" treating the man as rubbish. Pure bestiality. The Internet gang of people who usually doing the decent work, have wives and husbands, are fathers and mothers... And when nobody is looking, are turning into executioners online, thinking that they are going unpunished.

After the situation mentioned above, I left the described group. I don't know, how its further fates will go and whether somebody will deal with this organization, before its members really lead to the tragedy. I only hope that none of psychopathic threats which are written in this circle will be fulfilled and harm will happen to nobody.

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Some, but no! Majority of the women which are participating in the internet life is boasting for the pregnant belly, uploads the plenty of photos and films showing the progress of their pregnancy to social media, starting from the first ultrasound scan, not to say from two lines on the pregnancy test, day after day to the childbirth, and later million snapshots of newborn babies are going to their profiles.

One are doing it, because are full of joy and happiness and want to share this wonderful experience with world what is truly understandable. However other are motivated by the thought, that pregnancy and the child are a perfect marketing trick, what can catch the attention for them, and what follows to get the interest and fame.

Like it or not, with distress I have to admit they are right - it works. Following social profiles of many women, as well as many times teenage girls, neutral users and bloggers, many times I've noticed this worrying mechanism. Until were "normal", they had an average number of followers, and their activity was going slow or even didn't at all. However the moment, when publicly announced pregnancy and started filling their accounts up with hundreds of photos of the growing baby bump, an ultrasound scans and dozens of other pregnancy multimedia, an absolute time bomb fired. Followers number day by day was growing at full speed, the level of an interest in them immediately jumped on the highest level, and in the case of bloggers, benefits didn't also omit blogs which thanks to the belly got hundreds of new readers. With word - fame's approved, task done on 5, the child is a profit.

Probably it's easy to guess, why I'm writing about it. Certainly guessing won't also be difficult, that probably not in order to approve such a behaviour. So why?

For me the progression of this kind of action is definitely going over the top and fully incongruous. Using the child as tool of getting fame, is an insolence on the highest level, treating this young life like an object, forgetting that this is the alive man, and the Internet doesn't forget. Generally speaking it shouldn't take place at all, and the woman which is practising these rituals actually probably not yet grew up to such a huge responsibility as motherhood is, if is able to walk over everybody using the baby as the way in winning the Internet fame...

Personally I think that pregnancy is a private and intimate time which shouldn't be taken out for effect. I'm not a supporter of uploading to the Internet photos of the belly, USG, or of toddler after the birth. From my side I know that I won't share this trend and all pregnancy souvenirs will find their way to the family album so that this miracle stays safe for long years. I think that privacy protection, the same own and of the child from wrong persons should be on the top, and the safety should be a priority from the beginning.

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