Because the truth is that we don't notice beauty of the life and our happiness, until someone's harm, despair and suffering hit us. Only then we realize, how much contrary to appearances we have and how much we can lose...

I don't know whether everyone at one time had 'honour' of meet the specimen so exceptionally sublimated of the male like fluffing up feathers all and towards playboy, if this 'pleasure' is intended only for fortune's ones, but... Man, if you've such impulses, tidy yourself up and what's more as soon as possible, as long as there isn't too late, because doing yourself isn't known of whom and picking up to hundred girls per minute, you'll nothing won, just the opposite, you will lose in them (and all the rest, also boys) eyes. You'll become small bream, looser which is desperately seeking the way to feel more appreciated. You want it? No, really dude, you aren't even a bit cool, and rather pitiful and funny.